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GrowNoShow 34 M
1  question
How did you learn to eat pussy? - 12/15/2019

Some people learn how to eat pussy through experience, while others learn through watching porn. Some start as teens while others wait until their college years. I did neither, while I did watch porn it definitely wasn't to learn how to eat pussy. It was majorly watched so i could rub one out. I actually learned how to correctly eat pussy by reading. My early to mid twenties were spent on an ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
crewcab2019 47 M
3  questions
Score 5.9
A woman I know invited me to her party this year. For the record, her husband is TOTALLY HOT - 12/15/2019

A woman I know invited her party this year. For the record, her husband is TOTALLY and type. They are not swingers or anything that i know of, but since a lot of straight men have let me suck them, I am wondering is it right if I flirt with him when I go the party? I know her well, and she is a friend. I've met him a few times, and he is ALL , very good looking. masculine, built, etc. ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
crewcab2019 47 M
3  questions
Score 5.9
Across the board, is a Man that sucks DICK considered effeminate and submissive? - 12/15/2019

Across the board, is a Man that sucks DICK considered effeminate and submissive? <br><br> For exmaple, if you hear a man say he sucks dick, does that immediately make you think that he is " a fem" or "submissive?" If you were at the gym, office, or somewhere and someone said "that guy sucks dicks" would you think that is pretty cool and even macho? Or, ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
Sabrina7244 25 F
2  questions
AM SEXXY GIRL LOOKING FOR A HORNY MAN TONIGHT OR whatsapp me for xxx cum, phone xxx play - 12/15/2019

Am horny and wet now looking for someone fuck tight pussy/boobs.any age.i can travel where you as long as you provide a ticket for , please jokers stay a side, serious man also video sexxy just for a small token on +254743042392

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sabrina7244 25 F
2  questions
AM SEXXY GIRL LOOKING FOR A HORNY MAN TONIGHT OR whatsapp me for xxx cum, phone xxx play - 12/15/2019

Am horny and wet now looking for someone fuck tight pussy/boobs.any age.i can travel where you as long as you provide a ticket for , please jokers stay a side, serious man also video sexxy just for a small token on +254743042392

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sudden2020 70 M
2  questions
Score 1.9
How do you know if your IM friend really wants to meet? - 12/15/2019

Some never show up after they make a date.

21 response(s), 12 votes
crewcab2019 47 M
3  questions
Score 5.9
I don't know why people care if a Straight guy lets me suck his dick. It's his dick and my mouth. - 12/15/2019

I don't know why people care if a Straight guy lets me suck his dick. It's his dick and my mouth. Why should it bother you. Incidentally, women have it made, they can suck ANY dick they want, ANY time, and multiple times. They should know how special it is to actually suck a dick, but I have been told many women do not suck, Which is why the men come to me. <br><br> ...

14 response(s), 7 votes
Breedmyass13 47 M
1  question
Score 2.5
Anal or not? - 12/15/2019

Is anal sex better and should penetration lead to climax in my ass?

33 response(s), 9 votes
Otis_Good 67 M
438  questions
Score 11.6
allergic - 12/14/2019

When a woman becomes allergic to her man's . Is there any hope ?

22 response(s), 21 votes
bedstarr 55 F
2  questions
Score 19.7
Clit hood piercing - 12/14/2019

I posed the question the other day about belly button piercing but now I am also thinking about getting the hood done. Whether to do them both or just one or the other? <br><br> I am looking for advise from the women have had them done. <br><br> I don't have any issues with self-confidence, and not doing it just because. But more for , for those sensations. Will ...

42 response(s), 46 votes
hunting4real 62 C
1  question
Score 7.6
Finding mature friends - 12/14/2019

Why is it so damn hard find another mature .

23 response(s), 19 votes
albanynycouple51 59 C
7  questions
Score 3.8
cuckold cpls n black men our ya willing to meet greet n freak ? - 12/14/2019

if so sat dec 21 meet greet n freak cuckold cpls love black men albany ny area meet over drink local bar n grill freak at hotel next too bar meet
...

27 response(s), 51 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Taking Advice Seriously - 12/14/2019

We all have different life styles, age, desires, experiences, intelligence level, travel or not, but we all are either female or male. Some of us live in the slow lane while others on or over the edge. I don’t know about you, but I take my AL questions seriously and I also act on, what I think is excellent or good advice. Yes, I did not provide a home or for the lover of my GF who ...

26 response(s), 50 votes
Stuishot49 49 M
2  questions
Score 4.4
What would make you leave your husband for another man - 12/14/2019

Hi ladies <br><br> You are unhappy in your marriage and are having an affair. Every day you contact that man by message or phone just to talk about your day. Not always sexual. <br><br> But though you are unhappy, loyalty or guilt stops you doing anything else. <br><br> What would push you over the edge to finally make the big decision and leave your husband.

26 response(s), 28 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

25 response(s), 21 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Finding someone after a divorce - 12/14/2019

So what's the best way to meet new people after the divorce. <br><br> And how long should a person wait before having sex with someone?

1 response(s), 2 votes
33seanpaul 54 M
1  question
Score 2.9
do women enjoy man on man sex - 12/14/2019

do women enjoy man on man sex? what about seeing 2 men turns you on?

10 response(s), 6 votes
new to swinging - 12/13/2019

we are new to swing what is the biggest piece of advice?

29 response(s), 27 votes
Shyguynyc5 43 M
1  question
Score 6.0
Gentleman or bad guy - 12/13/2019

I don't know how to clean this up .... so I'm just gonna spit it out ! How do you tell someone your interested in that you enjoy all the time spent ! But there k!d is bad as fuck . And very rude ?

22 response(s), 18 votes
D0ct0rSF 42 M
2  questions
Score 14.4
Best Wat To Nurture A FWB Relationship - 12/13/2019

Title says it all. I always tend to taper off in terms of interest.

15 response(s), 15 votes
D0ct0rSF 42 M
2  questions
Score 14.4
Best Way To Get points - 12/13/2019

Hi what is the best method to get points quickly? Thanks!

14 response(s), 13 votes
quemarlavida 26 M
2  questions
Score 8.4
How are you? - 12/13/2019

are you really enjoy with your life?

19 response(s), 15 votes
aanonpass 49 M
2  questions
Score 8.4
earning points - 12/13/2019

Why points keep changing the is more all the time and you get charged points even when someone doesn't respond??

28 response(s), 24 votes
tysteal 27 M
1  question
Score 5.3
Best way to start - 12/13/2019

Ladies what’s the best way to start or contact on here to get your attention? And what makes you turn away right away? What profile things stick out

16 response(s), 23 votes
segabot 46 M
1  question
Score 5.3
Older women? - 12/13/2019

Why is it that I have always craved older women? I have always wanted to get with an older woman but never have. I have had this feeling forever and it seems to never go away. Can I get some advice on this matter?

33 response(s), 25 votes
Profiles viewed question - 12/13/2019

The other day I went to look at my profiles viewed to look for a lady that I had found in a random search that I didn't remember what I had entered into the search parameters. What I found shocked me when I looked at the profiles viewed. According to it I've looked at a bunch of Dudes! I have not looked at any men! Not interested in dudes. So ether when I answer questions or ...

16 response(s), 15 votes
Juano201821 56 M
3  questions
Score 4.6
Fantasias de fin de año - 12/13/2019

Tienen fantasias de fin de año? Hace años que quiero pasar ese cambio de año teniendo sexo, ojala en un balcon mienteas llefan las 12 de la noche y comienza un nuevo año mirando los fuegos artificiales y gozando con mi pareja. Alguna fantasia que quieran compartir?.

5 response(s), 8 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
5  questions
Score 18.8
For the Ladies - 12/12/2019

Do you like to be in control or be controlled? Let me hear your sexy thoughts!!!

11 response(s), 21 votes
Bwise1821 28 M
2  questions
Score 7.5
Points - 12/12/2019

Need points!! I’ll pay up at some point

9 response(s), 10 votes
Bwise1821 28 M
2  questions
Score 7.5
Points - 12/12/2019

Need points!! I’ll pay up at some point

0 response(s), 2 votes
Toescurled88 35 M
1  question
Score 6.2
Why most here start negative. - 12/12/2019

Why does a hey how are you doing today insight such a negative response or ignoring people? Is it just so normal ya negative inquiry that you all give up on humanity?

23 response(s), 19 votes
can u get points this way - 12/12/2019

can u get points by doing this ?

25 response(s), 22 votes
Flguy34654 42 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Points question - 12/12/2019

I think I know the answer but as a free member, isn’t there a limit as to how many points I can accumulate through pics, blogs? In other words, won’t there be a time when I’ll no longer get any points for these types of updates?

33 response(s), 38 votes
does this site use bots which interact similar to a person ? - 12/11/2019

could someone please tell me if its possible to receive and flirt without a profile view? since joining i have received 12 flirts and 5 views. <br><br> i will be more than happy to kindly remove myself immediately if the sort of deception is acceptable. <br><br> thanks in advance for any advice or insight

37 response(s), 31 votes
Curious4you98 50 M
1  question
Points - 12/11/2019

Need points. me reach 500 and videos of me stroking and edging for 90 minutes will be posted here. a fellar out?

28 response(s), 38 votes
Point - 12/11/2019

Whos out for points??

22 response(s), 26 votes
Point - 12/11/2019

Whos out for points??

4 response(s), 1 vote
Iwannacthat 52 M
1  question
Score 6.6
No response - 12/11/2019

I'm wondering if the women on Trans Date are so swamped with texts on instant messenger that they can't respond to all IM's or do they just ignore most IM's?

43 response(s), 36 votes
casey2301 42 M
1  question
Score 4.9
Points? - 12/11/2019

So how is a good way to earn some points?

25 response(s), 24 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
What can you expect from Standard Members? - 12/11/2019

You have a jungle of profiles on here, only 24 hours in a day, how do you get through the jungle when standard members can’t communicate. You just cut the first tree which looks good? What can you expect from a standard member if he is too cheap to pay for full membership or is cash poor? How can you develop a friendship if you have ...

50 response(s), 64 votes
heidelindi 50 T
16  questions
Score 3.7
Porn Star - 12/11/2019

Some years going by and my dream is reality. And it was a first step to heaven How you think about?...

28 response(s), 38 votes
ttzz123 20 M
1  question
Score 13.2
how to get points - 12/10/2019

now it seen it take 15 points to massage someone it fuck up how do you get more points i keep trying but never works

29 response(s), 22 votes
bedstarr 55 F
2  questions
Score 19.7
Piercing - 12/10/2019

I have been thinking a lot lately about getting my belly button pierced. <br><br> I am a 55 year old woman who does have belly fat. <br><br> Not sure what others would think of someone my age and size getting one. <br><br> I do have one tattoo which I got over 10 years ago. I know it is my body but what are other people's opinions. <br><br> ...

29 response(s), 36 votes
slut4fam 18 F
1  question
Score 10.2
Have some points here - 12/10/2019

This is a good way to rack some points up, yeah?

38 response(s), 33 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Points - 12/10/2019

Why in chat rooms do people beg for points. Can't you get 200 points for $3 ?

15 response(s), 11 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
3  questions
Score 5.6
Trans Date support asked for my password - 12/10/2019

So there was no way for me to move or delete the photos I submitted for a contest. I contacted support and the guy asked for my username and password. <br><br> When I told him I wasn't going to give my password he said he cant help me. <br><br> ??? <br><br> Since when has any website ever, asked for your password? <br><br> Never. ...

29 response(s), 27 votes
truhottie 44 M
1  question
Score 6.1
How do women really feel about male bi play - 12/9/2019

I would like to take a poll of how many women are turned off by the thought of MM bi play

46 response(s), 36 votes
FFU22018 52 F
14  questions
Score 11.2
WTF???? - 12/9/2019

How does this site work for a Standard member??? Especially a guy!?! I can't even imaging it! It's like a nightmare! It's like groping in the dark, then... when you finally get your hand on a tit, its your sister. I let my subscription lapse a couple of times, so I know what Standard is like. Just not being able to see profiles is reason enough to warrant the membership . Also have to ...

51 response(s), 66 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
5  questions
Score 18.8
Points - 12/9/2019

Just here for points

32 response(s), 36 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
5  questions
Score 18.8
Points - 12/9/2019

Just here for points

3 response(s), 2 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Personal Blings - 12/9/2019

Blings can say more than words could describe, one of the reasons I have blings on my profile to share with people what I like to do when I love someone. In the past I had friends (not intimate ones) do them for me form pics I supplied. However, anyone who liked these blings can/could take them for free and you find my blings also on other profiles. Over the last two weeks, I ...

32 response(s), 40 votes
advent43 63 M
11  questions
Score 18.1
redeeming points - 12/9/2019

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that when I attempted to redeem some points to a member an email, that option is no longer available. Did I miss something, is there another way to do this other than thru "redeem for features and prizes" ? Perhaps some nuance that I missed? It used to be 200 points to an email, now it appears that's been rescinded.

45 response(s), 36 votes
CJDOU 54 M
1  question
Score 6.5
Does IM work? - 12/9/2019

Does IM work?

59 response(s), 45 votes
nimrod17 51 M
11  questions
Score 0.1
Fans - 12/8/2019

When a person's profile indicates they have 'fans' does that mean they are broadcasting?

20 response(s), 15 votes
kmack3307 38 M
1  question
Score 0.1
My girlfriend absolutely will not do oral on me! Is this a red flag or is this normal for some girls - 12/8/2019

Please answer......is this a normal thing for some women or is this a red flag and should I run for the hills? You answers would be much appreciated.

80 response(s), 54 votes
Letsdothis8078 39 C
1  question
Score 2.2
Why does this happen? - 12/8/2019

Ok so my bf and I have been looking to bring another girl in for fun. He bought up this girl he had been with already but she doesn't like me. I told him she had feeling for him still and I didn't trust her. He replied that's not true and she wasn't trying to get him back. Well he cheated with her. I was right 😂. But my question is why does a man have to go see for himself? Why ...

55 response(s), 59 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
3  questions
Score 5.6
Moving photos - 12/8/2019

I took part in the recent contest, but now want to move the photos from the folder created it to another one. Yet there doesn't appear to be an option for it, am I just to re-upload them into another folder and delete the contest ones? <br><br> EDIT: I can not move them, there is no option to move them anywhere. I can't even delete them?? <br><br> Do I need to ...

20 response(s), 23 votes
boutgudsex 44 M
4  questions
Greatest Orgy of all time! - 12/8/2019

Who would tap out first men or women? The best thing about this question is the setting and scenery making it a dynamic experience! The setting and scenery would be like a zoo of course without the depending on your kink but a bunch of nakie ppl making out😁 wherever however! There is a bit of everything at the zoo outside attractions indoor attractions underwater attractions indoor exhibits ...

21 response(s), 20 votes
PittHotWife1 35 C
1  question
Anyone - 12/8/2019

Actually read these things?

51 response(s), 52 votes
youradventurecpl 43 C
1  question
How many pics on our profile is too few pics and too many pics? - 12/8/2019

Just want to know if we need more pics in our profile - Thanks

33 response(s), 25 votes
OralXpert216 44 M
1  question
I’m posting this for points - 12/8/2019

Do you answer questions just to get points on this site?

26 response(s), 25 votes
Havingfun377377 35 M
1  question
Do women get turned on by cheaters? - 12/7/2019

Just curious if there are women genuinely get excited about helping a man cheat.

51 response(s), 45 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
5  questions
Score 18.8
Naughty or Nice - 12/7/2019

Have you been bad? Are you going to make the naughty list like us? If so hit us up.

57 response(s), 67 votes
The Bigger The Better? - 12/7/2019

What are the perfect size boobs?

43 response(s), 37 votes
tucker3344 63 M
3  questions
Score 3.2
Has this happened to you? - 12/7/2019

I woke up from a dead sleep to find my girlfriend riding me in a frenzy. Morning wood was strong that day, and it was the first time a wet dream ended as intended. Ladies, have you done this for your lover?

30 response(s), 58 votes
How to enter into the gay porn industry? - 12/7/2019

Years ago, in the Kamikaze Club in NYC, I did Jeff Stryker in the bathroom. He offered to some people for me but I saw no and went on. I've regretted that decision ever since. I seriously now want to try the adult gay porn industry but have no clue where to start. What should be my first move or individual to or write? I have plenty of tapes I can for viewing and would welcome a personal ...

19 response(s), 22 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Holiday planning - 12/7/2019

If you would not be married (in case you are) how would you spend your holiday? Sorry about another post, sorry about having a need to ask for advice again It looks like my week between Xmas and New Years Eve will be different than expected. Just learned that Chris will visit his parents, do not want to see me in his hometown too much and Naomi is going to Aspen with a couple of ...

26 response(s), 43 votes
boutgudsex 44 M
4  questions
Eros! Sex Talk! Sexual Language! - 12/6/2019

Does sexual language enhance the feeling during a sexual experience? Or is it the feeling that brings out sexual language?

16 response(s), 23 votes
boutgudsex 44 M
4  questions
Is the topic of sex or having sex after introducing yourself totally wrong? - 12/6/2019

Is it the approach or sexual attraction?

23 response(s), 24 votes
aim2pleaseu952 67 T
10  questions
Score 5.1
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

24 response(s), 33 votes
aim2pleaseu952 67 T
10  questions
Score 5.1
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

0 response(s), 3 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Likes & Dislikes - 12/6/2019

When looking at my last question, it shows clearly that some older men don’t like me too much Not sure if it is because they have a hard time to go from /8 to =8, had bad experiences with women or they prefer to cuddle up to men. While some had good suggestions, from chocolate, cheese to TAG Hauer watches, some /8 had no valuable gift suggestions at all How sad, at the time of ...

29 response(s), 76 votes
Clpefreekinandki 40 C
1  question
Score 1.1
Have you found your best friend and lover all in one? - 12/5/2019

I was wondering how many others have found their best friend and man all in the same person? If you haven't already you need to keep looking ..It's an amazing relationship that is built to last...

34 response(s), 67 votes
a question for points - 12/5/2019

How to earn Trans Date points??

53 response(s), 51 votes
soc_solice 27 M
2  questions
Paid member - 12/5/2019

advice line post

19 response(s), 29 votes
solice_fred 63 M
2  questions
Standard member - 12/5/2019

advice line post need ?

21 response(s), 30 votes
B00biesman 37 M
1  question
Instant messenger - 12/5/2019

When will IM get a long over due update???

35 response(s), 34 votes
Wanderingman143 48 M
1  question
Score 0.2
First times - 12/5/2019

Whats the easiest position for the first time for anal?

32 response(s), 40 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Important question - 12/5/2019

If you would be my BF or Bi-GF, what gift would you like to receive from Europe when I meet up with you again? Xmas is also upon us, what would you like for Xmas , would it be OK with you if you got only 1 gift for both occasions? <br><br> + <br><br> = and I wish you all a wonderful holiday season Not Bling Owner ...

39 response(s), 52 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
5  questions
Score 18.8
Points who needs them - 12/5/2019

This is just for points

61 response(s), 63 votes
Lionbone7 34 M
1  question
Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area? - 12/4/2019

Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area?

16 response(s), 21 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
A question for women - 12/4/2019

Would you rather have sex missionary or doggie style, which feels better? More fulfilling?

29 response(s), 30 votes
Flguy34654 42 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Hangover horniness - 12/4/2019

Does anyone else get extremely horny during a hangover? It’s like I can barely function but damn do I get horny as hell when hungover. Anyone?

24 response(s), 33 votes
1HotCuple 45 C
4  questions
Best/Easiest tools for Bling Makers/Creators?? - 12/4/2019

Question for the best/top bling creators......What Apps/programs do you use to make/animate bling ? Got a lot of ideas but havent found good apps to create them with. Any help with this would be greatly appreciated.!

15 response(s), 31 votes
boutgudsex 44 M
4  questions
Have you ever had a touch of the sniffles and horny as fuck? - 12/4/2019

Aww! What a terrible feeling!

21 response(s), 19 votes
2guyinsnj 44 GC
1  question
Score 8.1
A question for women - 12/4/2019

Ladies if you were having a 3some with 2 guys. What would turn you on the most?

16 response(s), 21 votes
BLACK_CHARLES 41 M
1  question
Score 2.6
Is it ok to have a crush? - 12/3/2019

Is it ok to have a crush on someone who is dating your spouses side of the family? You both know it would be complicated, but they are so interesting.

29 response(s), 35 votes
CollegeFun98 21 M
1  question
Best main profile pics for guys? - 12/3/2019

What types of pics really turn you on from a profile?

28 response(s), 29 votes
Nateformilfs10 34 M
1  question
Were are sex ladies at - 12/3/2019

Why don’t anyone hit back on here

25 response(s), 27 votes
1HotCuple 45 C
4  questions
Bling in Introduction - 12/3/2019

How do you put your bling in your introduction? Do you just use brackets around the bling id when writing your introduction? Also can you put bling in a comment, and if so how??

22 response(s), 59 votes
WyoCowboy7751 66 M
1  question
Which Cam ?? - 12/3/2019

Suggestions on video cam use ?

22 response(s), 30 votes
ayna45 63 M
2  questions
Profile pic - 12/3/2019

Does any body know why some people hold up a sign in front of themself with there profile name. I don't get it whats the point.

31 response(s), 25 votes
Trapper69 62 G
29  questions
Score 28.7
Who Wants Points? - 12/2/2019

100 people can win 100, 000 points. All they have to do is not post anyplace on this website begging for points for 1 month.

47 response(s), 68 votes
tucker3344 63 M
3  questions
Score 3.2
Where are the mature women? - 12/2/2019

Having trouble booking up with mature women (>50). Am I just in a bad location?

34 response(s), 32 votes
tucker3344 63 M
3  questions
Score 3.2
Where are the mature women? - 12/2/2019

Having trouble booking up with mature women (>50). Am I just in a bad location?

4 response(s), 5 votes
vakero7mx 41 M
1  question
what happened to the 3 free chats? - 12/2/2019

a few months ago we had 3 free chats a day which made it easier to catch up and make new friends but with all these points stealing one has to go around begging for points. is there a way to go back to those 3 free chats?

48 response(s), 53 votes
Anal sex - 12/2/2019

Ineed a women to FUCK my ASS I am good looking and and want a women to watch me

25 response(s), 41 votes
sexyswipe 30 M
1  question
whos not afraid of anal sex? :) - 12/2/2019

whos not afraid of anal sex?

30 response(s), 31 votes
MisterXTC1000 55 M
1  question
Blogs - 12/2/2019

Does anyone here ever read the Blogs? No one ever replies and thousands show that it has been read. My guess its kinda like the women in here a mystery!!!

23 response(s), 20 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Score 2.1
Points - 12/2/2019

Who else here is in need of points?

24 response(s), 32 votes
Questions and Points - 12/2/2019

How is it that after everything has been filled out, , you put pictures up, videos up and do blogs, answer question and write articles, You have to ask people for points. Why?

32 response(s), 35 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Unhappy Friend - 12/2/2019

Would you be unhappy if you find your friend trying to organize her trip home on Trans Date, if you have not an exclusive arrangement? Ali was disenchanted today, because I was looking for options to shorten my layover at CDG, FRA or LHR. Why do I not understand him when he knows rather well that love does not mean exclusivity and he is not exclusive himself. What is wrong to meet ...

42 response(s), 48 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
47  questions
The new phone. - 12/2/2019

Has anybody else seen the new that has come it looks like a dildo but the problem with it is every time you the you get a busy signal and the voice says --Sorry I can not come to the right now.

18 response(s), 44 votes
What does the “rm_” mean? - 12/1/2019

I’ve seen many profiles with “rm_” pre-pended the username. What does that mean?

21 response(s), 28 votes
Lifeguardamc2 61 C
1  question
update status - 12/1/2019

Wondering if anyone else is having issues with the "status Update" on your profiles?? Mine has not worked in over a month. <br><br> Andrea

30 response(s), 36 votes
babeishorny 35 F
17  questions
Score 26.7
Ever happened to you? - 12/1/2019

I've just noticed that of photo has been missing from profile. I didn't deleted. How is this possible ? (it was approved by the site and had it for a long time) Thanks in advance for your valuable input.

36 response(s), 55 votes
niceguy26272 57 M
6  questions
Points - 12/1/2019

Why is this system so hellbent on taking point? Sometimes you have get of a due locking up, then takes more points start messaging again. What a RIP off

37 response(s), 31 votes
biflydog 50 M
3  questions
Edited posts - 12/1/2019

Has anyone noticed that Trans Date seems to mess up the erotic stories taking words out? Whether it was pasted or typed in the window, it seems just about everytime words are missing here and there. Kind of a pain, really.

19 response(s), 21 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
47  questions
Does anybody read the profiles? - 12/1/2019

What is it with some people in here they do not read your profile just look at the profile photo and start sending you messages and IM .I have men sending me messages saying things like hi sexy I have 10'' to please you and can bring some friends to give you DP. Then the ones who get on IM saying I am at a motel and horny care to come over? I just wish people would read profiles and ...

44 response(s), 67 votes
BBW/BBM - 11/30/2019

Many women say they are a BBW (big beautiful woman) but I can't find the glossary and I don't know what BBW/BBM means. Help me.

33 response(s), 35 votes
sambrennan6911 21 M
1  question
How is everyone doing? - 11/30/2019

How are you doing?

16 response(s), 27 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
3  questions
Score 5.6
Ive not come out. Should I? - 11/30/2019

I recently came the conclusion that bisexual. Recently being about a year ago, before that I was all kinds of curious. It was when I found myself watching the guys in porn films, just as much, if not more than the women and then having imaginative thoughts while not watching porn. <br><br> Now that I've come out within my mind, should I come out everyone around ? ...

32 response(s), 30 votes
cleangdlkingreal 44 M
3  questions
Mutual masturbation to break the ice? - 11/30/2019

I'm a fan of starting off this way to give us both a chance to relax and enjoy, possibly demonstrate, etc.

31 response(s), 34 votes
cleangdlkingreal 44 M
3  questions
Manscaping? - 11/30/2019

I trim, but generally refuse to shave completely bare as a rule. I also don't ask my partners to, and moreover prefer they don't.

21 response(s), 30 votes
cleangdlkingreal 44 M
3  questions
Eating pussy on the first day - 11/30/2019

I'm down if she is. I mean, I hoping she's sitting there thinking about sucking my cock. seems only fair.

25 response(s), 26 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

15 response(s), 19 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

4 response(s), 4 votes
caged4146 33 M
1  question
Score 1.2
Gold - 11/30/2019

Is gold worth it?

21 response(s), 17 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Instant message - 11/30/2019

Does anyone else have problems with IM? It seems I have end conversation in order get a reply, if left open nothing comes through, end conversation and reply comes through.

26 response(s), 29 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Score 2.1
Toys - 11/30/2019

Whats does everyone prefer? Vibrators or dildos?

23 response(s), 14 votes
Letslipkis 36 M
1  question
Decline in internet hooks - 11/30/2019

Maybe it's just me but the Internet hook up scene seems to be dying a slow death. Do you think people have lost interest in quick and fast hook ups.

18 response(s), 31 votes
Needsalittlemmm 38 M
1  question
Whats the best Tag line you have seen - 11/29/2019

Please reply with the best, funniest tag line you have ever seen on here.

6 response(s), 16 votes
nicco100 51 M
163  questions
Score 8.4
Pics - 11/29/2019

For the men, what do you prefer see as the main pic in woman'sprofile??...is it a shot, pussy, boobs/breast, butt, legs, waist, eyes, lips...etc or the whole package???....

26 response(s), 35 votes
DirtyThoughts002 38 M
1  question
Favorite panty color? - 11/29/2019

What i your favorite panty color?

49 response(s), 38 votes
Stuishot49 49 M
2  questions
Score 4.4
European nudist beach. Where a couple could have fun - 11/29/2019

Hi, <br><br> I am looking for a beach, where potentially a couple could have fun together discreetly. <br><br> I know its maybe against the law, but it is something my fwb and I are interested in. <br><br> Any suggestions where would be appreciated.

13 response(s), 26 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
47  questions
I still remember. - 11/29/2019

I still remember when I was young I would find my older brothers Playboy magazines my friends and me would look at them back then they had so much hair on there pussy you had to get there pubes in your mouth if you went down on them. I am glad it is not like that now or do people still like a hairy bush?

55 response(s), 78 votes
Jjj835 21 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

20 response(s), 22 votes
Jjj835 21 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

0 response(s), 1 vote
Women's Feet - 11/29/2019

This is a fairly naive question addressed to the ladies but I fully expect the onrush of nasty comments from the guys. This is a good forum to ask these questions so don't hold back guys, be a nasty as you like with your comments - I kind of expect it. So, Ladies. I am trying to understand how to tell if a lady gets sexual pleasure of foot rubs. Some women complain about their feet ...

18 response(s), 27 votes
YoungHuungNow 29 M
1  question
First date in Los Angeles? - 11/29/2019

Any good suggestions?

14 response(s), 17 votes
YoungHung4FunNow 28 M
2  questions
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

24 response(s), 26 votes
YoungHung4FunNow 28 M
2  questions
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

2 response(s), 3 votes
jo123456201 49 M
1  question
Swallow - 11/28/2019

do all woman love or hate to swallow

22 response(s), 27 votes
Barenaked700 59 M
1  question
Score 0.2
Alternating the Fleshlight - 11/28/2019

Any of you guys alternate the Fleshlight? Hooking up medela breast pump to it gets good results

12 response(s), 26 votes
Gizmo197695 43 M
1  question
do women really like to watch men masturbate - 11/28/2019

ive always wondered, do women really enjoy and get turned on watching a man masturbate.

39 response(s), 49 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
2 women + 3 men = Group sex? - 11/28/2019

What a topic in the sauna yesterday. Do you know that people are totally nude in the sauna in Europe? If you in a room with 4 very close, caring and loving friends, one woman melts together with one man, while the other female does a DP with the other two men, and after the guys are done you do a girl 69 with the other woman. Do you consider this group sex or friends sharing a ...

34 response(s), 58 votes
Rico678990 30 M
1  question
Sexy hot females how many of you love your pussy ate? - 11/27/2019

Alright sexy and gorgeous women how many of like have there pussy ate and how long is good for you do you like cum once or more then once before you get dicked down just wondering some women say they don't like that at all and alot say they love it but the question im asking how long is enough? I know I love eat a nice beautiful pussy and can last a while down there mm mm mm

34 response(s), 32 votes
Timetraveler2 56 M
1  question
Status Updates... - 11/27/2019

I was just curious if anyone else is experiencing any issues with updating their status? I have been trying for a few days and it does not take. It has been that way since the beginning of the month for me...

23 response(s), 27 votes
Flguy34654 42 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Straight guys wanting men - 11/27/2019

Is it me or does it seem to be more typical of men who call themselves straight , wanting to get fucked or suck a dick?

25 response(s), 25 votes
bs2019cj 40 M
1  question
why is actually meeting so hard? - 11/27/2019

Ugh been stood up 5 times lately on here. Why does meeting an actual person have to be so hard on here. I mean if you dont ever plan on meeting be upfront and honest about it at least. <br><br> <br><br> So frustrated

21 response(s), 20 votes
wyzard33 50 C
2  questions
How strong does the relationship have to be to survive the swing - 11/27/2019

We are new to the scene and haven’t actually met up with anyone yet. There are a lot of articles out there that all say the same thing- if there is not complete honesty and excellent communication any level of open sexuality or polyamory will tank the relationship. We have compatible sexual needs and really want to explore what adding others can bring us sexually. We also struggle with honesty, ...

46 response(s), 35 votes
wyzard33 50 C
2  questions
How strong does the relationship have to be to survive the swing - 11/27/2019

We are new to the scene and haven’t actually met up with anyone yet. There are a lot of articles out there that all say the same thing- if there is not complete honesty and excellent communication any level of open sexuality or polyamory will tank the relationship. We have compatible sexual needs and really want to explore what adding others can bring us sexually. We also struggle with honesty, ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
aanonpass 49 M
2  questions
Score 8.4
Do people really meet up on here? - 11/27/2019

I mean a lot talk about it but do they actually do it , so many fakes !

25 response(s), 17 votes
Wntsome7115 48 M
1  question
Score 0.1
Easiest way most women cum? - 11/27/2019

Is clit still really the easiest way to make a woman cum?

38 response(s), 25 votes
Kellly782 41 M
2  questions
Online play - 11/26/2019

Hello ladies. What are some do’s and don’t of online playing. I’m single and thinking of trying

28 response(s), 27 votes
NoVaCock94 25 M
3  questions
Score 2.0
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

2 response(s), 7 votes
NoVaCock94 25 M
3  questions
Score 2.0
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

0 response(s), 1 vote
NoVaCock94 25 M
3  questions
Score 2.0
Is there anyway to post pictures or videos from the mobile site? - 11/26/2019

See the main question lol.

0 response(s), 1 vote
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Turkey Day! - 11/26/2019

Nobody here knows about Thanks Giving , how can you not celebrate Thanks Giving, how can you not give thanks, how can you survive without a stuffed turkey? No wonder Donald proclaims “America First” Yes, I do miss out on this day this year, but I do not want discount my happiness at the moment, thanks Cyrous & Ali Would you give up Thanks Giving for LOVE, would ...

44 response(s), 92 votes
Laksha12 29 M
7  questions
\u003ci\u003e <i> tip to improve my stemna - 11/25/2019

<i>is there any one who know the real exercise to improve sex stremna

24 response(s), 30 votes
LVMXRACER 33 M
1  question
why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks? - 11/25/2019

why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?why as a straight male am i so attracted to huge cocks?

62 response(s), 42 votes
Thanksgiving - 11/25/2019

Do you expect to have fun this week?

27 response(s), 29 votes
MsJaneBondage 50 F
1  question
Why do men chase straight men on Trans Date? - 11/25/2019

I would love hear from all of you, Gay, Straight, Bi, Confused, In Hiding, and anyone willing share their intellectual thoughts on the subject. <br><br> I have had tons of conversations with guys about how the men treat the women on this site. Most are not very nice to the women, they hide behind their keyboard. During these conversations the common thread ...

77 response(s), 63 votes
Mbicur16 40 M
1  question
Score 0.7
Do women find bi guys attractive - 11/25/2019

Just curious how women think about bi guys

42 response(s), 32 votes
Why doesn't anyone ever talk to standard members on here? - 11/25/2019

I have been on here for a year and only had one im . I am a good looking guy just looking for some fun.

50 response(s), 41 votes
How do I build up points without buying or upgrading? - 11/25/2019

I have just about exhausted my options for getting any points. Can anyone help?

40 response(s), 35 votes
prissygirl0 46 F
1  question
fake or not fake - 11/24/2019

How can you usally tell if its a fake profile or are they fake profiles on here

63 response(s), 52 votes
lombriz1963 56 M
23  questions
Messenger instantaneo - 11/24/2019

cada dia menos charlas y por puntos , , como hacen ??

15 response(s), 16 votes
1HotCuple 45 C
4  questions
Status , cant't update doesn't show on profile, anybody else with this issue?? - 11/24/2019

Anyone else's status not showing up and not updateable ? Have contacted customer service, have a bug eve, but they haven't fixed it yet..Its been a week or now that we cant post a status.

26 response(s), 20 votes
Jjj835 21 M
13  questions
One night stands - 11/24/2019

How often do u have one night stands

49 response(s), 40 votes
friends - 11/24/2019

Can free members add friends? When I try I'm redirected their profile page wanting me subscribe gold view profile

27 response(s), 28 votes
Any single women? - 11/24/2019

I'm finding most profiles from women are or they are attached looking for a porn star size penis to play with. I'm a free member and not really seeing any benefit to for a membership when there aren't any real single women near me. I did chat with a couple but they were too far away, had no transportation or were married and had no where to meet and not willing to drive although I ...

22 response(s), 33 votes
foolinaround69 50 M
1  question
fake or not fake? - 11/24/2019

What is the best way to decifer the difference between a fake profile and a real one?

25 response(s), 23 votes
ayna45 63 M
2  questions
flirts - 11/24/2019

why do I get flirts from people that never looked at my profile.

32 response(s), 22 votes
Vgiovalval 42 M
1  question
Pissing - 11/23/2019

Is pissing something you can do your GF?

32 response(s), 33 votes
daves1slut 52 C
1  question
A extra woman - 11/23/2019

Why is it so hard find a extra woman join in with a ?

27 response(s), 38 votes
howdydoodyXLII 48 M
3  questions
Why can't I change my status? - 11/23/2019

I have been trying change status update thing on here, but it seems everything I type gets rejected lately. They tell the server admin or something along those lines. Most of the stuff i try put there is innocent, and I don't believe I am violating any rules. Certainly not as bad as some things I see. They may be holding a grudge against me trying slip K I K in. I don't even ...

33 response(s), 33 votes
Best place for a first meeting? - 11/23/2019

Where are your favorite spots meet a new buddy? I

45 response(s), 29 votes
Best place for a first meeting? - 11/23/2019

Where are your favorite spots meet a new buddy? I

4 response(s), 5 votes
2014leecoguy 51 M
1  question
Score 3.2
Multiple profiles - 11/22/2019

Why would someone want to create multiple profiles, especially ones that contradict each other? Age, wants, etc... completely different from profile to profile (I am not referring to the spam-bot profiles) <br><br> And to use the exact same pictures for both profiles....very strange!

34 response(s), 42 votes
SAF7317 46 F
4  questions
Raw or using condoms - 11/22/2019

Lots of guys just wants do it raw.. You mind or you mind condoms? Sex needs be fun not stressful !

71 response(s), 73 votes
SAF7317 46 F
4  questions
Raw or using condoms - 11/22/2019

Lots of guys just wants do it raw.. You mind or you mind condoms? Sex needs be fun not stressful !

4 response(s), 5 votes
SAF7317 46 F
4  questions
Raw or using condoms - 11/22/2019

Lots of guys just wants do it raw.. You mind or you mind condoms? Sex needs be fun not stressful !

1 response(s), 4 votes
SAF7317 46 F
4  questions
Raw or using condoms - 11/22/2019

Lots of guys just wants do it raw.. You mind or you mind condoms? Sex needs be fun not stressful !

3 response(s), 4 votes
mufdiver69er2 59 M
16  questions
Score 6.7
those who dont date married men and are blocked from answering that post.. - 11/22/2019

put it here, if ya like...always more than one way to skin a blocking cat...

16 response(s), 37 votes
lyavu 46 F
21  questions
Score 8.0
STD ???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? - 11/22/2019

Wow i talked to a guy who had contacted me ..He seem like a good guy but he mentions on his profile he has an STD. He was tricked a womam and she gave him ..He got upset that i wouldn't meet him .To me it's a run away kinda situation ..WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

47 response(s), 44 votes
lyavu 46 F
21  questions
Score 8.0
STD ???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO? - 11/22/2019

Wow i talked to a guy who had contacted me ..He seem like a good guy but he mentions on his profile he has an STD. He was tricked a womam and she gave him ..He got upset that i wouldn't meet him .To me it's a run away kinda situation ..WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?

3 response(s), 5 votes
babeishorny 35 F
17  questions
Score 26.7
Those who don't meet married men?? - 11/22/2019

I personally don't chose to meet with married men and I have no right to judge anyone who do like to meet them as everyone is responsible from their life and live the life the way they choose to live. Those who don't prefer/chose to meet married men; what if they have an open marriage , their wives knows and the wife also meets other men for sex? Would it be ok to meet them then?

48 response(s), 80 votes
Does anyone on here actually meet? - 11/22/2019

I know that I have had very little success meeting people from here, so few and far between. How many out here actually have the luck to have met someone and started something??

52 response(s), 38 votes
Flguy34654 42 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Flirting and not messaging - 11/22/2019

I don’t get it, what’s the purpose of just sending a flirt and no follow up?

36 response(s), 29 votes
Iceking6996 34 M
2  questions
ice breaker? - 11/21/2019

What is the icebreaker? i saw it mentioned in a blog

28 response(s), 25 votes
Launching IM? - 11/21/2019

I have been here about or . a week ago you launched IM by pressing the button on the top right of the screen. <br><br> A week ago it started acting up and now just launches a blank page. Has anyone else experienced this and if so have you managed to resolve it and how?

29 response(s), 22 votes
Kellly782 41 M
2  questions
Chat (ladies) - 11/21/2019

As a basic member would I have the same opportunity or would my profile be ignored

14 response(s), 27 votes
reddraig 52 M
1  question
Score 7.0
Points to Message - 11/21/2019

Who thinks that not having 3 free messages a day and each message or reply costing points makes the site less friendly? <br><br> I am so much more particular on who I respond to or message due to this. I am fairly friendly, I am straight but if a guy in my area messages me then I will respond. Due to no free messages and it costing points, I don't respond? <br><br> I ...

36 response(s), 43 votes
dangbitches 54 F
32  questions
Score 7.4
The change - 11/21/2019

I enjoy chatting, enjoy hotlisting and a flirt or two. But now I cant. But why?

28 response(s), 45 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Surprise - 11/21/2019

Since my post was removed yesterday, I like to post it one more time, was hoping to have some thoughts on it by now Oh well, now I have to wait until tomorrow to talk to Ali&Cyrous, about their surprise and what friends and the A/L advisers think about their action, both will come to the hotel in about an hour and also tomorrow It was no secret to both of them, how much I ...

29 response(s), 60 votes
stallion3301 45 M
2  questions
Men of Webcams - 11/21/2019

Do woman prefer to chat through messenger or on webcam? I perfer webcam since they can see I am a real person and not a fake. Any thoughts ?

22 response(s), 33 votes
MulleenofMelb 54 M
2  questions
Is it better to be asked....or...... - 11/20/2019

So is it better to be asked, and is it a compliment, or simply a nuisance? <br><br> Should a question of having sex... one which should never be asked, ? <br><br> instead be proposing loving.....or carnal knowledge.....or a quick rut against that wall or this.....over that table, or straddling a solidly built chair.... ?

26 response(s), 35 votes
miruton81 38 M
1  question
Trans Date or tinder? - 11/20/2019

So the question I have is which one is better for finding that "quick fix" that most of us are looking for. Seems like there are a lot of fake profiles on Trans Date but the same goes for tinder. Unfortunately, I live in a smaller town with an older population that doesn't really seem to use tinder. So what do y'all say works better?

35 response(s), 38 votes
jolielaide 48 F
53  questions
get it up - 11/20/2019

have you gotten your xmas decorations up yet? the house up the block from me already has their tree right smack in the living room window, lights and all. and saw a few other houses with christmas wreaths on the door. can we have thanksgiving first? have you dragged your box of decorations out yet? i know december will be here soon, but i don't see what the rush is. or is this the time to get ...

34 response(s), 32 votes
Question for all the sexy milfs! - 11/20/2019

What are some fantasies for the milfs? Interested to hear if your fantasies have changed over time due to life experiences and what way they trended. Kinkier etc? And yes everyone is different, but interested to hear a few ladies thoughts.

23 response(s), 51 votes
Question for all the sexy milfs! - 11/20/2019

What are some fantasies for the milfs? Interested to hear if your fantasies have changed over time due to life experiences and what way they trended. Kinkier etc? And yes everyone is different, but interested to hear a few ladies thoughts.

1 response(s), 9 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
What happened? - 11/20/2019

Can’t update my status and now also my important post from earlier today does not show Does nobody like me anymore; does nobody like my posts or what I do right now? All I desire in life is love and what do I get? Is it rejection or a server issue? .. .. ...

47 response(s), 43 votes
wildducky907 39 M
1  question
Messenger - 11/20/2019

Hey what's up with the messenger I send it says sent and delivered but nothing???

0 response(s), 0 votes
horsestud6969 38 M
3  questions
updating status - 11/19/2019

Please contact the service admin. This comes up when i try to update my status, anyone know what i need to do?

27 response(s), 26 votes
PowerPoint73 45 M
5  questions
Trans Date (Then OR Now) - 11/19/2019

Was.Trans Date better when you first started or better now?

52 response(s), 48 votes
PowerPoint73 45 M
5  questions
Trans Date (Then OR Now) - 11/19/2019

Was.Trans Date better when you first started or better now?

5 response(s), 6 votes
JovemBull 29 M
2  questions
Score 0.7
Lesbians - 11/19/2019

When did you realize you were one ?

33 response(s), 48 votes
JovemBull 29 M
2  questions
Score 0.7
Lesbians - 11/19/2019

When did you realize you were one ?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Score 2.1
Strap on fun? - 11/18/2019

What are people’s thoughts on mmf or strapon play?

46 response(s), 37 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
4  questions
Score 4.7
Is it worth the cash here? - 11/18/2019

I am a standard member and really do not get much play. Always seems like the same people on here, I guess the question is does paying for gold membership help for meeting people or not. I can tell you standard is terrible, but don't see why paying a fee will flip a switch.

30 response(s), 37 votes
Donutms 18 M
1  question
What do people here think about sex with an Asian guy? - 11/18/2019

Please no insulting comments.

25 response(s), 26 votes
Kravn4u2b 46 M
1  question
Why is everyone is looking for is - 11/18/2019

Does every woman here always is looking for women no matter in couples or straight everyone is bi it seems or is this a lesbian website? And for men are they all just gay here and the straight ones are just wasting their time and money? Do the men or husbands get to play with their woman that is playing with the gay lady as well or are they are stuck in the considering line for next time but ...

22 response(s), 26 votes
Wlong712 48 M
1  question
Yep here for the points - 11/18/2019

Seems like we are all posting for points now.

44 response(s), 44 votes
Submissivegirl2p 44 F
1  question
3 some - 11/17/2019

I have a fantasy of having men.....is this a bad thing ...or ahould I go for it

78 response(s), 108 votes
Do ladies like cream pies, and why? - 11/17/2019

Do you ladies like cream pies, and why?

35 response(s), 39 votes
biflydog 50 M
3  questions
What do couples expect from the single guy? - 11/17/2019

Ok, so we took it way tooooo slooooow with the that we/I with, so it was never much of a question of would do what when. Plus his wife was a take-charge kind of gal, so she usually directed the action. However, for those couples meeting with a single guy for the first time, what do you want him do? Now I know there'll be some discussion beforehand of what everyone wants, but beyond ...

29 response(s), 37 votes
Which size is more important? - 11/17/2019

Length or girth?

31 response(s), 36 votes
What happened to the groups? - 11/17/2019

Is it just , or has usage of groups kind of fallen off? Seems so dead in so many groups now b

14 response(s), 16 votes
lyavu 46 F
21  questions
Score 8.0
TRANDGENDER.??? - 11/17/2019

I am writting out of curiosity. I have observed many men not only on the site but in general who want to be or transitioning to women . What is it about being a female fascinates them ? Being a woman encompasses alot.

19 response(s), 45 votes
Real_4u2fuk 37 M
2  questions
Trans Date - 11/17/2019

How to obtain a free upgrade

17 response(s), 23 votes
DdF meaning - 11/17/2019

What does DDF stand for?

14 response(s), 17 votes
nafurescandy 49 F
3  questions
Wow since when - 11/17/2019

Wow since when does it points to reply to IM messages sent to you? Ive never encountered this until tonight. Is this because I haven't been on as much? WTF?

52 response(s), 76 votes
Fogosolover 45 M
1  question
Les gusta hacer el amor con música? - 11/16/2019

He experimentado diferentes bandas sonoras haciendo el amor y considero que influye en los ritmos, en el ánimo y sensibilidad. Estarían de acuerdo? <br><br> Con qué música prefieren hacerlo? <br><br> Saludos!!!

8 response(s), 18 votes
Sudden2020 70 M
2  questions
Score 1.9
What does NSA stand for? - 11/16/2019

Sometimes it is easy read what people put on their profiles and then some are very confusing. Take the above question dose it mean No Sex Available, or No Smoking Allowed, Neither of which makes any sense.

36 response(s), 31 votes
ahut1963 56 M
2  questions
What are "flirts" for anyway? - 11/16/2019

1st, no I am not just looking for points. But people here do flirt just for the fun of it. I do not like it if you flirt, tease. If you flirt, you should use the flirt show genuine interest. If you just want flirt tease, then just at profile and it alone. I am assuming that if you flirt, you want at least about it. Not cyber sex, but at least see if we like each other. But t flirt, and ...

32 response(s), 32 votes
Jaysen4moms 32 M
1  question
Creampies? - 11/16/2019

Do I like giving them too much?

33 response(s), 40 votes
jolielaide 48 F
53  questions
parental guidance suggested - 11/16/2019

would you ever or have you ever told your parent(s) to not show up at your place? seems my older brother told our mother such a thing and i know it hurt her feelings bc she has mentioned it a couple times since. he was sick and she came bearing soup and juice; totally harmless. he later tells her to not show up unannounced. he got nerve. i feel like i wanna say something to him like "i know ...

26 response(s), 40 votes
is it okay i am addicted to sniffing panties - 11/15/2019

I love to sniff and lick used panties is that okay

47 response(s), 56 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 50 M
12  questions
Kansas City meet n greet! - 11/15/2019

Has anyone ever attempted such a thing here in KC? <br><br> Would anyone be up for a meet n greet? Just a wondering?

15 response(s), 41 votes
jolielaide 48 F
53  questions
got milk? - 11/14/2019

the country's largest milk producer filed for bankruptcy recently bc apparently people are not drinking as much milk these days. if you're not drinking cows milk, what are you drinking instead? do you have a dairy alternative to milk? just curious to know if, for you, it's a taste preference, a health choice, an environmental decision. or perhaps milk is for babies and you're no ...

66 response(s), 88 votes
biflydog 50 M
3  questions
Foreign women - 11/14/2019

I had a co-worker who made numerous trips to the Philippines (I never asked him to tell me everything he did there, plausible deniability you know!), and eventually brought a girl home. A few months after the marriage (and thankfully a pre-nup), she was off fucking some other guy. The divorce was shortly after that. I wasn't the only one who said "I told you so..." Personally, I ...

42 response(s), 82 votes
silk_petal_rose 56 F
1  question
Gay question - 11/13/2019

Often now in the chat room we have a lot of gay/bisexual guys........... saying this ///////// bi versatile bottom seeking a bi versatile top <br><br> <br><br> what does this ""even mean""

49 response(s), 66 votes
babeishorny 35 F
17  questions
Score 26.7
I wonder what are your valuable thoughts on this? - 11/13/2019

A sex expert who wrote 16 books about sex, says; It’s interesting: you can have magnificent sex with someone you don’t love – even someone you don’t even like that much. <br><br> And also, just because you love someone, doesn’t mean the sex is going to be great.

112 response(s), 170 votes
pleasure4ever75 44 M
2  questions
Hovering over profiles - members notified? - 11/12/2019

When standard members view (hover over) profiles .. are those members notified that they've been viewed?

76 response(s), 87 votes
Are you real! - 11/12/2019

Where are all the real women down for fun on here?

53 response(s), 74 votes
New here! - 11/12/2019

Hi All. New guy here looking forward to meeti g new people! Any help is appreciated!

29 response(s), 40 votes
benja1407 40 M
1  question
¿ Cuál es la razón por la que entraste a amigos calientes?¿ qué te llevó a tomar esa decisión? - 11/12/2019

Muchos dirán que a buscar sexo, eso es más o menos obvio. Esta pregunta está orientada más a los motivos personales de cada miembro, que cosa que vivieron en su día a día los trajo a esta comunidad. A mí las ganas de conocer a muchas mujeres y conversar con ellas y tratar de lograr salir a tener sexo

17 response(s), 31 votes
SaydiLynnCD 45 T
2  questions
Where Does a Transgender Buy Implants - 11/12/2019

I've been a long time Cross Dresser, for about 30 yrs. I've practically lived my life as a woman for over the last year. So I'm gonna make the switch and no more CDing, I'm a full time 24/7/365 girl now. So who do I need to contact and talk too about getting the top of the line breasts implants, 36D. Please steer me in the right direction.

37 response(s), 49 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

29 response(s), 41 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

3 response(s), 4 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

2 response(s), 7 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 1 vote
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

1 response(s), 4 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 2 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 5 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 1 vote
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

0 response(s), 3 votes
marty26622 57 M
14  questions
Share some knowledge - 11/11/2019

From time to time I receive invitations to orgy or sex parties Has any one responded to these? if so are they legit and are single men well received?

10 response(s), 6 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Xmas is around the corner - 11/11/2019

Have you already thought about for your special friends? Any great ideas are very much appreciated. Just got off a unique Skype session with Ali and yes, I shall fly visit with him and Cyrous. Unfortunately he admitted that he was already with 2 women since I left, the pressure, the separation was too much for him, but he assured me it was not as special as when he was with me. He also ...

44 response(s), 78 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 50 M
12  questions
POSTING POLICE! - 11/11/2019

It never fails but everytime I post something there is always someone critiquing everything I post instead of just responding to what the post is really about! <br><br> So with that being said, let the posting police get to work!

39 response(s), 68 votes
pleasure4ever75 44 M
2  questions
Confirm ID: Has anyone done this? Did anything weird happen / go wrong? - 11/11/2019

Confirm ID: Has anyone done this? Did anything weird happen / go wrong? Is there really any point to it?

27 response(s), 33 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Score 2.1
Strapons - 11/11/2019

What do people think about strapon fun?

38 response(s), 33 votes
It sucks man - 11/11/2019

what is going on here is that normal you get flirted and hotlisted by somebody and when you them on IM they don't even say " hI , there" is anybody here is real?

32 response(s), 32 votes
Biggmike272 40 M
2  questions
What do most prefer - 11/10/2019

Do most women prefer to be pounded deep and hard? Does that really get you off?

34 response(s), 32 votes
Goldenman56x 63 M
6  questions
Score 5.0
How do you find real - 11/10/2019

How do you find people that are really interested and not just talkers or fakes? What things do you look for?

21 response(s), 27 votes
kimdan4fun 36 C
6  questions
Pubic hair and shaving - 11/10/2019

It use to be that people would ask for the female to be shaved and now most couples insist on both male and female be shaved. We always were neatly trimmed so why the insistence on bare runways. Beavers are dying all over America soon to be extinct.

54 response(s), 66 votes
FantasyMan532 59 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
Silver Membership - 11/10/2019

was on here when they had the Silver membership and thinks they should bring it back it was like $.00 cheaper and there was not a big difference between gold and silver

19 response(s), 21 votes
FantasyMan532 59 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
Silver Membership - 11/10/2019

was on here when they had the Silver membership and thinks they should bring it back it was like $.00 cheaper and there was not a big difference between gold and silver

3 response(s), 7 votes
wildcatr27 48 F
45  questions
Ok some men complain - 11/9/2019

Ok some men complain about having women first because we want equally. So I have tried contacting men first & get nothing. I am just trying understand why guys don't respond, but they complain when women don't all the time. <br><br> Oh & if you want say nasty things about , I will you Reiki, love and light

49 response(s), 81 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Weekend Question - 11/9/2019

What is in YOUR opinion the difference between a 3some, more some, 4some and a gangbang and was your opinion formed being involved, observing or through hearsay? <br><br> + I am still straggling with a post comment from the other day and last night does not either <br><br> . in advance for your opinion !!!!! ..[bling ...

41 response(s), 90 votes
Sexchat - 11/9/2019

would any woman agrees sexchat (on webcam) with a guy she just meet online ? let me know what you think and why

27 response(s), 39 votes
Real_4u2fuk 37 M
2  questions
How to get laid - 11/9/2019

Best tactic on this site

37 response(s), 43 votes
Early30sAzFlirty 32 C
1  question
Couples are the best on here, but hard to get a response. Who responds most ?? - 11/8/2019

I mean we ain't no models, but that is what makes it real. Them drop dead gorgeous people, I have my doubts. But even if they are real, there should be all sorts of different peoples types out there. We've only seen one, Dudes. However I must admit that a couple of couples have reached out of 100's and maybe they're real. Time will tell. <br><br> Any real people ...

39 response(s), 52 votes
lifes4living1975 44 M
1  question
Question for the ladies - 11/8/2019

How important is mental stimulation for you? <br><br> Fore play and building up to sex is often cut short or ignored, and quite frankly if i cant spend hours teasing mentally the sex isnt as good. <br><br> Thoughts please. x

28 response(s), 50 votes
holgfr 50 M
3  questions
sex in the morning, noon, afternoon, evening and night? - 11/8/2019

sex in the morning, noon, afternoon, evening and night?

50 response(s), 51 votes
holgfr 50 M
3  questions
outdoor sex ? - 11/8/2019

outdoor sex ?

51 response(s), 46 votes
holgfr 50 M
3  questions
let's have sex this night ? - 11/8/2019

let's have sex this night ?

19 response(s), 31 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 50 M
12  questions
Hawaiian Islands - 11/8/2019

Which one would you go visit and why?

14 response(s), 20 votes
Nothinserious61 55 M
4  questions
Score 3.5
G Spot orgasm - 11/8/2019

So what is the best way to make a woman have a g spot orgasm.

25 response(s), 23 votes
Nothinserious61 55 M
4  questions
Score 3.5
G Spot orgasm - 11/8/2019

So what is the best way to make a woman have a g spot orgasm.

3 response(s), 1 vote
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Kegel exercises - 11/7/2019

Dr. Google and Dr. Bing have lot to say about it, but I could not find any medical reason why a husband would make his wife do kegel exercises every day aft she gave him a . Frank’s infrequent lover does this for her husband and it blows my mind. If a man loves his wife, would he not be happy if she made love to him, when he desires it and allows him to ...\8 Tight, very tight or ...

53 response(s), 78 votes
Goldenman56x 63 M
6  questions
Score 5.0
Sucking balls - 11/7/2019

Do you like sucking balls? A lady did it to me and it was fantastic.

43 response(s), 70 votes
Goldenman56x 63 M
6  questions
Score 5.0
Response - 11/7/2019

Why do gold members do not give a response like am not interested when someone sends them a message? Is it because they get so many? If I got another interested I will not message them again wasting points. I never know if I should try again another time.

29 response(s), 31 votes
Goldenman56x 63 M
6  questions
Score 5.0
Response - 11/7/2019

Why do gold members do not give a response like am not interested when someone sends them a message? Is it because they get so many? If I got another interested I will not message them again wasting points. I never know if I should try again another time.

2 response(s), 7 votes
Nothinserious61 55 M
4  questions
Score 3.5
Morning, noon or night - 11/7/2019

So would you rather have sex morning , noon or night .....

42 response(s), 58 votes
Nothinserious61 55 M
4  questions
Score 3.5
Morning, noon or night - 11/7/2019

So would you rather have sex morning , noon or night .....

1 response(s), 2 votes
GASOGA2 33 M
2  questions
Señoritas, les gusta greñudo o rasurado el pito? - 11/6/2019

por higiene y/o estética, se debería de rasurar uno sus partes genitales, pero no siempre se tiene esa idea; mi pregunta para las señoritas es esa.

10 response(s), 33 votes
GASOGA2 33 M
2  questions
Señoritas, les gusta greñudo o rasurado el pito? - 11/6/2019

por higiene y/o estética, se debería de rasurar uno sus partes genitales, pero no siempre se tiene esa idea; mi pregunta para las señoritas es esa.

1 response(s), 4 votes
Xxentric_1 45 F
37  questions
Bloody well Right or Wrong? - 11/6/2019

Sex on your period. Yah ? Or Hell No ?

43 response(s), 94 votes
Xxentric_1 45 F
37  questions
Bloody well Right or Wrong? - 11/6/2019

Sex on your period. Yah ? Or Hell No ?

8 response(s), 14 votes
Xxentric_1 45 F
37  questions
Bloody well Right or Wrong? - 11/6/2019

Sex on your period. Yah ? Or Hell No ?

2 response(s), 7 votes
Xxentric_1 45 F
37  questions
Bloody well Right or Wrong? - 11/6/2019

Sex on your period. Yah ? Or Hell No ?

0 response(s), 5 votes
ahut1963 56 M
2  questions
Finding a versatile CD or TV, why so hard? - 11/6/2019

I am a regular guy that happens to have a big passion for CD's and TV's. However it is hard to find a gurl who likes to go both ways, to be switch, or versatile. I like a who can get hard, who likes to go down on , but likes it just as much as when i go down on her. I don't really do this in a 'sub' role, more as a lover. Yes, I do also like to be topped by a CD, but I like ...

13 response(s), 34 votes
cumoniwnnalayu2 50 M
12  questions
Anyone under 30 - 11/6/2019

Ever respond questions or polls posted on this site?

18 response(s), 48 votes
Azngirl4dom 27 C
1  question
Regrets or No Regrets - 11/6/2019

Has anyone ever shared their wife then regretted it later?

26 response(s), 61 votes
jj10113 40 M
1  question
We’re you more horny when pregnant ? - 11/6/2019

Ladies - were you more or less horny when pregnant ? And what did you do about it ?

19 response(s), 58 votes
rm_sweet2b4 54 C
1  question
Blow jobs spit or swallow - 11/6/2019

I love suck cock but I don't let guys cum in my mouth. Most guys say that women are spitters or swallowers so what's the term for this?

60 response(s), 109 votes
mamadaddy2021 32 C
1  question
Squirting - 11/6/2019

Would you agree to sex with a woman that insisted on squirting on you every time you had sex?

55 response(s), 71 votes
2cuerzedel 51 M
2  questions
MADURO vs JOVEN - 11/5/2019

Ultimanente me a tocado charlar con chicas jovenes que les gustas los hombres maduros y yo me pregunto, ESTO SERA UNA MODA?

13 response(s), 42 votes
LickUHux 58 M
2  questions
First BJ Nerves - 11/5/2019

If you are the sort of person who was nervous about giving someone a blowjob for the first time, what helped you relax (other than ingesting something)? And what surprised you most as you began or completed the act for the first time?

30 response(s), 59 votes
LickUHux 58 M
2  questions
First BJ Nerves - 11/5/2019

If you are the sort of person who was nervous about giving someone a blowjob for the first time, what helped you relax (other than ingesting something)? And what surprised you most as you began or completed the act for the first time?

4 response(s), 6 votes
Weary1923 24 M
2  questions
Married - 11/4/2019

How many guys on here are married?

30 response(s), 53 votes
sussi1028 59 F
356  questions
Score 33.4
Being used - 11/4/2019

When I was reading this post today, I was thinking at first it was written a lost soul What makes a woman desire to be used 2 men? I thought nobody likes to be used anybody, while a few men do use us women; you also find very nice and caring ones even on Trans Date. I love 3somes, DP is my favorite thing to do, but it has to be done with harmony, love, caring, being used is just ...

57 response(s), 123 votes
Best cheesy pick up lines? - 11/4/2019

Common ladies lets hear the best and worst you've heard?

20 response(s), 39 votes
sexynfun01 55 C
3  questions
Do you enjoy rimming? - 11/4/2019

How far is too far when it comes to rimming?

48 response(s), 76 votes
sexynfun01 55 C
3  questions
Size - 11/4/2019

A huge penis can be fun for penetration but when it comes to anal and oral do you still want huge? Or do you prefer different sizes depending on where it's going to end up?

28 response(s), 62 votes
FantasyMan532 59 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
Cock Rings - 11/4/2019

I have a friend he had a heart attack a little less then a year ago he says he can only get semi hard he can not take Viagra cause his heart wants to know if a cock ring would help him be able to penetrate his wife any advise on this could help and Please no ASSHOLE COMMENTS

32 response(s), 31 votes
Anth101976 43 M
1  question
Can and does NSA work? - 11/4/2019

I've asked myself this loads of times.... When you find your NSA friend and the sex is great there must come a time when it becomes more than just NSA?

38 response(s), 47 votes
Otis_Good 67 M
438  questions
Score 11.6
bet you haven't seen this asked before - 11/3/2019

Is it the woman's cervix fluids or her arousal fluids that determines the taste of her pussy ?

18 response(s), 32 votes
MulleenofMelb 54 M
2  questions
Intelligence or Looks? - 11/3/2019

Do you seek a lover looks right make love, or do you seek a lover is intelligent enough make good loving?

17 response(s), 31 votes
prettylights4321 33 M
1  question
Is Using Trans Date cheating - 11/3/2019

Is using Trans Date cheating?

14 response(s), 34 votes
2guysforyou 38 GC
1  question
ladies, cut or uncut - 11/3/2019

any preference? cons and pros?

17 response(s), 37 votes
Invests - 11/3/2019

So.... invests in bitcoin and how’s that going for ya?

12 response(s), 22 votes
swman2 51 M
1  question
Gold - 11/3/2019

Can a good member message a standard members and give them a free reply ?

14 response(s), 27 votes