pinkie2019 58F
9 posts
4/8/2020 7:08 pm

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JustlomesumMe 65M
537 posts
4/8/2020 10:03 pm

Usually the signs of a married man.

So nice to be insane; no one asks you to explain.

ProfessorNaught 107M
1096 posts
4/8/2020 10:48 pm

Why do women? Why have you done it at least once or twice in your life...
Perhaps those questions will lead to answers

SakuraMar 45F  
99 posts
4/9/2020 12:49 am

Thinking on this, I believe there could be many reasons for ghosting. I have not done so. I like to tell a guy the reason I think our conversation is making me uncomfortable or going nowhere. After all I know would like the honesty given in return. All you can do is accept that it was a stepping stone. Sometimes you need a lot of steps so you can end up where you can settle. Time to move on and get to stepping

Sakura Just Saying, Be kind it doesn't cost you anything

Brownie202 63F  
1702 posts
4/9/2020 3:45 am

Like one said he is married. Another is never meant to meet. Could be wanted to but changed his mind.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

seems6666 49F  
3715 posts
4/9/2020 4:45 am

I know.. it's a nightmare but it's not just on here, men on other sites do it too.
I have a lot of spare time on my hands but get seriously pissed off when I and he to be fair have invested a lot of time and effort... I don't get it either

BiggLala 48F  
28170 posts
4/9/2020 9:37 am

That's actually not what ghosting is. Ghosting is when you've personally met the person, dated a few times (possibly had sex), and then they cut off all communication.

Someone who just stops chatting with you is...someone who just stops chatting with you. I'd say consider them just a complete stranger who wasn't as invested as you. Yes, it's frustrating, is what it is.

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papis_baby_girl 41F
5258 posts
4/9/2020 10:51 am

in my experience, unless you agree to sex within 5 minutes of corresponding, then men are out of there.

they are looking for uncomplicated sex without work, so if they feel it's going to be work getting you to fuck them, then they are out.

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Luv2pleaseU2da 57M
10 posts
4/19/2020 7:10 am

I agree if something turns you off,, say so
woman do it too Pinkie,, happens all the time
then I get the answer,, oh I don't come here every day,, you need to be a little more patient,,,lol,,, we spoke every day for 2 weeks,, now I haven't heard from you for 4 days,,, but Im wrong????LOL
Cant figure some people out

WhyNot1001 60M
90 posts
4/29/2020 7:56 pm

It's weird. Sometimes even the ghostee becomes the ghoster. Keep the faith pinkie!!!

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